I think the mods read our posts to ensure we stick to the rules, but they don't get involved in the content. So any requests on the forum for THEM to make system changes will get ignored.
Such issues need to be raised with them via e-mail. .
So I try to be helpful re contacting the mods with queries, and this makes me a stalker does it? K, do you genuinely believe that I'm stalking you? That I've got nothing better to do with my time? If that really is your perception I respectfully recommend counselling. Good grief!
Hi Eck, Is everything okay.Latest postings on here have been positive with an emphasis on trying to move forward.I can understand how you can still be angry over past debates.Hope you are well though,have seen your other posting which was edited concerning going back on DA,s.Not sure what problems you have,but hope you solve them. I have no influence over the moderators,and believe i have not attacked Ray.My last post on here was in defence of Ray.I do believe however in freedom of speech,but prefer that speech to be civil,at the same time honest. We have been trying to realise through latest posts on here,just how things can get out of hand.Different characters,different views,words and views misconstrued.The complication in the fact that without face to face contact,the words could be coming from anybody,this in itself can induce paranoia. Just to reassure you that i am a normal guy,married for 25 years(anniversary beginning of May).I prefer to get on with people,and like everybody using this forum am on my own roller coaster journey.A journey in which i am learning more and more and realise how easy it is to upset people,even when unaware of the fact at the time. You don,t have to like me Eck,it is the same in every day life.If you prefer a polite discussion i will try and answer any grievances you have.At the same time promising you "hand on heart" that i have nothing to do with the moderators and no personal involvement with Kyloe. Hope your day is brighter Moving forward together Titan.
I have been away since last Wednesday (the 13th) and was initially able to join the forum on my laptop, but then my wireless network started playing up and I havenāt been able to post or view since last Friday. I was about to reply to Rayās post to me by saying: āSorry to have misinterpreted your messageā when my connection went belly-up. So Iāll say it now that Iām back, as I can see that I was in the wrong by presuming that Ray wanted to close the topic as he simply wanted to start moving forward from that point.
Then Titan replied to Ray, saying that he had read his post as it was intended. The subsequent posts were laden with misunderstandings (donāt go Kyloe!) which Titan summed up perfectly.
We are so close to reaching a situation where we can discuss the emotive subject of DAs without reaching an impasse so, for all our sakes, letās keep trying. If someone occasionally lapses into less-than-polite language, they can always follow it up with an apology once they have cooled down.