Sorry, I wrote the last post, thought better of it but couldn't work out how to delete it, I can usually get rid of them without trying! I'll go back to drafting them then thinking about it before putting them on the forum. Apologies for the negativity, please feel free to erase it. J
We can delete the post if you still feel the same way, but there's no need. None of these taking control posts are aimed at suggesting that you won't have a bad day, negative feelings or sometimes feel like you're very much not in control. And of course, not everyone will be ready at every stage to get themselves informed. What is important is that you're aware of the choices that you do have when you're ready and that you're aware of the information and support that is available.