Hi everyone, my name is Anne, married to Harry. I am 65 an Harry is 76 and we have 19 yr old triplets! We sadly lost our first son Matthew in 1994 to a sudden death syndrome, he was 14. 4 years later after ivf treatment we had our trio, a girl and 2 boys! When they were 9 Harry was diagnosed with advanced bowel cancer, stage 4, that was in 2008 he is now in his 6th year of remission, thankfully. 2 years ago he developed tremor in his left hand and Parkinsons was diagnosed. Last week he had to have a tow amputated as it got an infection in the bone, worried if it will affect his balance which is already not good. Then last July I was diagnosed with Ovarian cancer, had surgery and chemo and currently all clear! Phew! Just joined here for support, am noticing more and more symptoms with Harry, the latest being a gulping sound when he swallows, he doesn`t seem to notice it. Its all very worrying, I see him looking frail now and it breaks my heart. He has always been so active, still has an allotment but he is struggling but wont give up! Thank you for reading, its nice to not feel alone.