Hi guys , its late here as i sit crying writing this -
my husband as i wrote above has pd -- according to dat scan done last year they suggest he has had it about 5 yrs which would possibly tie in with these possible personality changes...
ie - no empathy or understanding of hurt, upset, consideration, respect or appreciation for me ---
i try my best to understand - i do everything i can to help .... I wont go into ALL i have done except to say all he does is work -- thats his only focus and goal in life ... Nothing else matters.
i try so hard to get him to talk about how he feels and thinks - im met with irritability and silent treatment , my upset gets a shake of the head and ignore...
there is no conversation about the issues here, he refuses to discuss pd or his behaviour --- and yes nothing changes for either of us if you have an avoidant partner unwilling to play his part.
i set up counselling , that didnt work
i spoke to the counsellor before she saw him and told her a little of his behaviour --- she recognised it as emotional abuse ...
i guess what im asking is - is this normal pd behaviour ??? Or is this suggestive of something more going on ??
im really upset most of the time because of the way i am treated and i know pd is difficult thats why im still here , i have arranged an appointment for monday to see his pd nurse , dependant on what comes of that my next appointment will be the neurologist as i need to understand and find answers ..
can anyone here please help or relate to any of this ???