thank you so much for replying.
I have been in touch with my husbands doctor and his advice "consider a care home"!! no way, I shall fight this on his behalf to the bitter end.
Fed, I have read a lot of your posts, you are so inspirational. I have taken your advice. After speaking to his doctor i have been in touch with our local hospice and they tell me they would have him there for a few visits and have the pallliative team assess him but first he has to be referred by his doctor!!
Peter can't do anything for himself now, he had a fall which resulted in a hospital stay for nearly 4 weeks. Whilst in there he had chest infection UTI and the flu!! Alzheimer society are coming to see us on Friday, hope they can offer some help.
It's a lonely road for the carer,I am tiptoeing around all day as I don't want to disturb him. I did love walking but can't chance leaving him as when he's awake he constantly needs reassuring I am there.