I’m finding that everyday admin is becoming a real challenge as my Parkinson’s symptoms change from day to day. Things I never thought twice about, like checking messages, keeping track of appointments, or making sure money has gone in or out, can suddenly feel overwhelming when my concentration or energy dips. Recently I tried to check my fab ratibi card balance and it wasn’t updating properly, and I was told I might need to visit a branch to confirm it. On a good day that might be manageable, but on a bad day the idea of going out just to sort something so basic feels exhausting and frustrating. It’s not really about the bank itself, more about how these small uncertainties build up and knock your confidence when you’re already managing symptoms. I’m curious if others feel the same about everyday digital tasks becoming harder, and how you handle practical things like finances and admin when your symptoms are unpredictable.
Hello Elsie2, we’re sorry to hear that you’re struggling with everyday admin as your Parkinson’s symptoms change. Please know that we’re here to support you, and so are our lovely forum members.
We have lots of information on our website, including support for daily living, here: Daily living | Parkinson's UK
If you feel it would be helpful to speak to someone, you can also call our free helpline. Our trained advisers can offer support and advice, and you can ask to speak to one of our Parkinson’s nurses: 0808 800 0303.
Please know that you’re not alone,
The Parkinson’s UK Moderation Team ![]()
Hi Elsie2
I know exactly what you mean. The problem is you never know whether you are going to have a good day or a bad day. I find that if i have to go into town to the bank or similar, I make sure I plan a quiet day the day before and the day after. The same with social activities. I then feel more energised and confident about going out without feeling like i’m going to keel over midway through my trip. I also accept that tasks simply take me longer. I used to be able to clean my place from top to bottom in a day. Now it’s like painting the Forth Road Bridge. It takes me so long that no sooner have I finished than it’s time to start again! It’s frustrating but I find that a sense of humour helps.
I understand exactly what you are saying. I used to be spot on, i’s dotted and t’s crossed, all done on time but it’s all gone out the window! God forbid I should have to present in person at my banks! One is 20 miles away with no nearby parking, the other is 50 miles away!!! I recently had an issue with a card that requires a card reader/pass and was unable to comply with keying in of numbers due to tremors. Eventually I have been given a direct number and all questions will be asked verbally not needing the touch pad. On one phone call with British Gass I snapped at the patronising way I was spoken to and told her straight my body might be failing but my brain is still working. I am in process of setting up LPA’s for financial matters but do not want to turn them over until needs must.
yes. parkinson’s severely damages the “getting thing done” parts of the brain. for me personally this is the biggest hit i have taken from parkinson’s.