Hi Carol so sorry to hear about your mother Don, t know if this helps but mam and me went through exactly the same thing with my dad 18 Bbb onths ago sadly he didn’t come through I won, t lie it was really hard to take as we cared for him 24/7 for 4yrs after he broke his hip all I can say is do your best and try to hang on to all good memories and banish all the bad I found it so hard as I had been diagnosed with pd 5yrs ago and kept it from him all I can say is Don, t be afraid to fight for what you feel is what your mother would want please keep me updated and I, m here if you want to chat anytime
Pete