I am sure I am speaking for a lot of women when I say that an interesting man can overcome any physical imperfection! It all depends on the hang-ups the man has about his condition. The only thing that could be a problem is when your expectations of her role in the relationship differ from what she feels she could offer,even though she reciprocates your feelings and might want to be with you, she might not like to be your full-time nurse. I remember reading Superman's autobiography, in which he describes the situation after the accident which left him paralysed, when his wife did not join the caring team , deliberately, so as to keep the relationship on a level more in keeping with that of husband and wife (equal partners) than of nurse and patient(dependent)