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Living with Parkinson's Daily life
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            Hello Dolly and Wye

                              I HAVE posted a quiz for you and am  getting together enough info to post a super quiz with 30 or 40 questions, thats if you are interested, let me know and I will post the post which you will find challenging and YOU anyWILL RECIEVE A COMMENDATION ,  A    FUC IF YOU GET THEM ALL RIGHT, THE FUC IS FEDS UNIVERSAL COMMENDATION,???? WELL WHAT DID YOU  THINK IT STOOD FOR, tee hee, Im up to speed this morning and could knock doors out of windows, so my friends if you are looking for a doors out of windows bloke im your man. Beloved has been peering over my shoulder and told me to take FUC off, but I am  sricking to my guns, its obvious what the initials stand for so FUC IS STAYING, unless I am admonished from above and given a thourough tongue lashing, AHHH YES I remember those days, when beloved and I first met for me it was Lust at first sight, I was cleaning the widows and was on the KAMAKAZE step ladders, and in the reflection from  the highly polished surface I saw this very very sexy lady in her bikini chasing her dog, it was a very old dog, aged 43  human  years thats two light years in doggy years, anyway as I was saying, I am always interupting myself, there ive done it again, bu,,er,and as I turned to gaze in wonder at the joy I had found, well it was a case of  BBBAD TO THE BONE, BBBAD TO THE BBBBONE those were the first sight feelings, wow but she looked good, that was in 1980 the year I moved into this house,over 13yrs ago ( I WAS NEVER GOOD AT MATHS),  Later that day I caught up with her as she was walking her little dog, a miniture sheltie called SCOT named after SCOTT WALKER OF THE EVERLY BROS, ??????????? i ASKED if she would like to accompany me to the  SUNDERLAND AIR SHOW which was on the following weekend she did, I had custody or custardy of my two chidren and we had a fantastic day , the rest as they say is History, I still  desire her and want her badly at times, but when I was told I had BLACKHEART,  and was prescribed madopar plus cabergoline, that latter drug sent my desire for her into Hyper super turbocharged mode ,and we did everything everywhere, and believe me I mean everthing, Beloved found this new life very exciting as despite being 5yrs older than me she had never been married she had boyfriends, and suprisingly affairs,  with two of her bosses, and of course I HAD BEEN married and possessed  skills which blew her mind  lets say she experienced the highest of highs a man  can give his woman,   Oh they were delightfull days, and I do love her, more than the world, she stood by me as my universal massively accelerated sex drive stepped up two gears a week,  beloved could  not keep up, I took her to sex shops, and a long weekend in Amsterdam was electrifying for her so  imagine how I felt when she really threw  herself into the role and our passion reached new heights, but something burning with such brightness luminosity and energy had to give soewhere and it did as it does with everyone the passion fades, which it did for my wife, but CABERGOLINE kept my passions very much alive, and our relationship came under pressure, an almost broke but when I told my consultant that I feared for my marriage, he removed the cabergoline and within two days I was normal Fed again, and now though I do want and desire my wife she is simply not interested much to my dissapointment, she has put on a little weight but if anything its made her even more desireable ,she is insistant that she has no feelings for me sexually what a waste, but our love has evolved into a better place now, she is my greatest friend confidant and nurse/carer, and I LOVE HER, AND WILL DO FOR ETERNITY,  Well I am so sorry  I  went way off track there, I do that all the time beloved often  scolds me for changing the subject, especially when she mentions painting and decorating, or shopping,  if any of my dear friends are still rading  or even reading this my  appologies I Know I ramble on a bit but the subject is close to my heart, and if anything shows  livethere is a way to live with pd and still    LIVE

                                       Thank you for being patient with old Fed

                  

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Wow young Fed...coolyou have had one colourful interesting, exciting life haven't you? i can understand the effect of the different meds though i must say mine haven't changed my desire either way! i still try and chase Mr Dolly round the chair! seriously i used to suffer with regular awful migrains ....for many years and that didn't ever make me use it as an excuse to say not tonight dear!!ideaWhen i had a Hysterectomy i was 43 and i told the nurse if my Husband visits me later and he is wearing his white shorts, i won't be responsible! those curtains will be pulled around . I don't think so came the reply......but at the first opportunity a month later i was after him, and i rang the nurse to tell her, she was amazed.  No i can honestly say i have never turned my  fella down,,,, i am always very grateful lol winkseriously though, to be close to the one you love and the cuddles and little knowing glances are so lovely, if it turns into the Kama sutra then Faaaaaaaaaaaaaab!!!!!! 

Thanks for posting the quiz matey....i will have a go at it later and i hope i get them all right cos i reckon to get a FUC would be like a Brucie Bonus!!! though you can keep Brucie! 

Your memories reminded me when i was first hairdressing and one of my jobs was to clean the shop windows( well we all have to start somewhere i guess) I knew there was a handsome Butcher opposite who spent a lot of time in the window of the Butchers arranging his mince!!! at 16 and the very mini mini skirt era it was always a pleasure to wash those windows , and he thought so too!!!!!!!!!! funny thing was we never ever spoke to each other and i didnt even know his name but those moments were FUN razz

Yes Fed thanks for asking, i am feeling much brighter now.....i had the results which showed mild Inflammation in the Colon so i am now waiting to go back to discuss managing it. it can flare up apparently and stress is the thing to do just that, and when it started in Feb Mr Dolly was poorly and outside events that caused more worry and angst, so i presume that didn't help matters. Last week i made one of my regular visits to the eye hospital, the outcome this time finally is that the time is right to get an op on my eye which is caused by Thyroid eye disease and has given e Ptosis (lid lag) it has been like this since 1995 approx and as i have very poor vision in the other eye it is important now to get the muscle  tightened purely to be able to see out of the good eye better. Now he will try and get funding for it but he says it is an exceptional case so is fairly positive we will get the ok. It would be good if it gets done to be able to send you a before and after pic (not straight after as i may look as if ive done a few rounds with Mohammed Ali eye roll

Last night Our Son, his lady and us went for our twice annual Glow worm walk!!! yes really, i am not an old ANARAK , but it is a fab evening walking a couple of miles on the Downs link that used to be the railway before Beeching did his business!! we don't start until after 10pm and walk carefully to try and avoid the horses poos. We have a laugh especially when bats are flying around and i am jumping out of my skin, or as in the case of last night, saw a big dog and a couple coming towards us in the shadows (the mind starts to play tricks after a while, and the eyes ) but was relieved to find that they were realevil We arrived back at the car at 12.30 am and only saw ...........1........!!!!!!!!!!! we thought we would try again in July/Aug and maybe oover the golf course which is supposed to be like fairyland question mark heres hoping. 

Well im off to get a few rays cool but will be back later

Hope you enjoy your day matey............keeeeeeeeeeeeeeep smiling always, people look at me very oddly sometimes, so i just give em a grin and then they def look at me with suspicion. Am i bothered? what dya think? 

Take care luv

Dolly x

 

 

 

 

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Hi young Fedcool......what a beautiful day it has been......so good to see the sunshine.

Answers to your Beatles quiz:- (i love them all)

1. Fool on the Hill..sung by Paul...from Magical Mystery Tour

2.I am the Walrus..sung by Lennon...from Magical Mystery tour, also remixed on the Love album

3.Magical Mystery Tour...sung by Paul....from Magical Mystery Tour

4. Blue Jay way...sung by George...from Magical Mystery tour

5.Your Mother should know....sung by Paul..from Magical Mystery Tour

6.Come together.....sung by Lennon...from Abbey Road

7. Woman....sung by Lennon (brilliant) from Double fantasy

8.Jealous guy..sung by Lennon ...from Imagine album

Thanks for those matey....brought back some fab memories again....where did those years go?

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            Very well done Dolly, you  obviously have a extensive  knowledge of the most famous band ever I will post more tommorow as laptop had a nasty virus,   sorted

                                                       FED

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            I  am sorry you  are having bother with your eyes, we are both having a bit of a hard time at the moment it tends to make life awkward and its a uphill struggle. I do envy you your walks on the Downs , my cousin took me walking there , we were about 14yrs  ,he was killed when he came off his motorbike and went under a truck, age 17.

                                                 Must go Dolly  PD is bothering.

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Good evening young Fedcool......Hoping you are feeling much better since this morning...this Parky business is a B***** at times and just catches you out. I am so sorry to hear about your Cousin, that isn't something you ever get over is it? I bet you both had fun when you were walking over the Downs, a couple of 14 year olds without a care in the world, happy memories to keep forever matey. razz

What great times we had in our young teens, no mobiles so Mum or Dad couldn't get hold of us....freedom to roam....and the energy to do it !! and  we did and it was great wasn't it? x

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coolrazz

         Helllo Dolly

                               Yes it was a good time to be alive, no worries, fed watered clothes washed and  pressed and 10bob pocket money , remember the 10 bob notes Doll, you could travel to hastings  ist class on the train book in at a 5 star hotel for a week all transport was covered and you still had change to take elocution lessons, actually that last mentioned benefit was a bit of a fib, I dont  need electrocution leshuns and eye luv my Geordie acatsent, sorry I lapsed into silly mode there, I remember when my cousin and I walked the downs,  well strictly theyre up and downs Doll  , there was a beautiful heady scent  in the air and I was a keen  bird watcher   ( Ornothology)  I was only just beginning to notice the other type, and the vast assortment of species for a twitcher it was marvelous, then there was that smell ,what would be giving  off such a intoxicating fragrence  Dolly, but the Highlight for me was the thrilling sight of a MK 22 Spitfire flying very low over the beautiful countryside he reallly had the hammer down and was only 50ft  above the ground as I was even more interested in Aircraft than Trains, Birds   (feathered) and Buses I was so exited to see a Spitfire in its element, actually there were Spits based near me at Acklington for quite a long time after the war, up until about 58, they were used as target tugs, never has there been a more gracefull shape seen in the sky and that includes Concord    my cousin Robert,  Robert Tack ,he wont mind me mentioning his name, Rob was about to join the RAF,  for pilot training, he used to say he woud learn to fly the Gloster Javelin and fly up to Northumberland and fly up my street scaring all the cats, his death was a blow his personality kindness and high intellect would have taken him quickly to  senior officer status in the RAF. DEATH IS NATURES WAY OF TELLING US TO SLOW DOWN, ironic really as he was a bit of a daredevil and he was cornering too hard on his bike and it slid across the road under a van and broke his neck,it also broke my Aunt and Uncle, they had a sucessful business in Hastings but they sold up and moved to OKLAHOMA in the US, I  have enjoyed teling you this potted history Dolly Mr and Mrs, it brought back bitter sweet memories.

                              Also update on the pain I had yesterday, SORTED

                                         All the very best to you both  Fed

                             

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Hello young Fedcool.....So good to hear that you are feeling much better today and glad the ice water helped your tummy pain....you have a lot of courage .......respect to you matey.wink yes it is strange isn't it that though none of us have met it is as though we have known each other for a long time....i guess having Parky has just that one benefit.......it is a link between us all and i for one enjoy our chats and games, jokes etc. I understand what you are saying re the Aircraft.....both Mr D and i have loose connections !!!! with Aviation. I was previously married to an Airman in the 70s and was based at Brize Norton in Oxfordshire, we lived in the connecting village of Carterton. We were very keen on fishing at the time and we used to go to a pond in Fairford where Concorde was based. Very often we would walk near it to get to the pond and i don't even remember much in the way of security there. It was a handsome looking beast (Concorde)!!!! well the other half was pretty tasty too!  Obviously living near the camp the sound of the aircraft would often be very loud and especially when you were trying to sleep, they would be testing the engines. I did get used to it by the time we left there in 75. I enjoyed living and working there but my O.H. wanted to get back into civvy street.

Mr Dollys connection with Aircraft was as a refueller at Gatwick. He worked for SHELL to begin with and then Esso, 15 years total. He absolutely loved the job and was very upset when he had to retire at 70 (not through choice). He refuelled most planes from ATRs (small prop jobs) up to Jumbos  (which would take nearly 200 tonnes of aviation fuel)!! for long haul. There was the odd occassion when chaps made mistakes, like one pulled away on his vehicle with the hose still attached! which pulled the hose of the aircraft, so the passengers were taken off and it wasted a lot of time for them  and the crew. Also someone did damage the Aircraft by driving into it.....(daydeaming)  that was instant suspension. Guess he should have gone to SPECSAVERS!!!! 

We have an air show here every September for 2 days at the local Airport approx a mile from us so every time it is on my poor old TOM is terrified so i close all the windows and nurse him especially when the Jump Jet comes over and the Vulcan ......makes my windows shake !!! you can almost the pilot picking his nose....he gets that close over my roof. 

My Aunts Father was a Navigator in a Lancaster in WW11 and had lots of stories to tell. So Aircraft has played its part in my life as well. Though i do love the old steam trains...smell, smuts noise and all.  

i hope you have a happy day Fed my mate......we are off to the Cricket this evening Sussex v Middlesex with our lovely Son and his Lady, i guess i must support Middlesex as i was born there though live in Sussex....mind you i don't understand the first thing about the game except that the blokes rub their B**** on their trousers !!! thatl do it for ME loleek

Chat soon ...keeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep smiling big grin

luv Dolly x