I hope all is well.
I’m sorry to hear of your Dad’s distress. Have you tried contacting our helpline? If not, please give them a call as soon as you can so they can offer you and your Dad some support on this. Do give them a call on 0808 800 0303.
Also, if you haven’t done so already, I’d also recommend that you consult with his GP to explore any potential options they may have to treat his bladder issues.
Let me know what you think of the above and if I can do anything else to help you.