Reasons why people have deserted this site

Everyone wants the last word though, as usual.

It will only end when Tim closes it.
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i rekin we gonna get a post from the mods eventually ,there readin away at all of this and most prob havin a good laugh at us all,there are a few good poitters on the thread the rest of it is really bickerinbeteewen each other who wonts wot ,instead of puttin wot they would like and then the next person and so on ,like it ment to be,owell a ,its life for ya,but at the end of the day who has the last word after us lot have either fell out ,left the forum or just plainly thought i will watch topics but post the odd one,it not us that will win ,or says arnt goin to be herd now ,it will be the mods who say wot is wot,and then wot ever is chose it will not make more than half of us happy most probs,so then we go agin a nother debate about that then ,and on and on it will go,this forum is turnin in to a forum of debates ,people dunna wont to come on here and read this crap goin on,if they are happy they may go to the social side and have bit of fun in there ,and may be read up the odd bit of itstreat bout pd ,but that is all they goin to get.wot about the people who have come on and carnt just be happy the ones that are really sad and pullin there hair out cus they got no were to go or to understand pd proper,and wont to chat with people with the condition with out gettin there head bit off ,welli tell u were they go over to another forum ,when this one is ment to be a world wide one we have normally us hand ful of regualrs that keep it goin maily in the social ,cus we are scared of gettin our heads bit off to.it all boils down to arguinin not listernin to one another and pickin on people who are either dumb like me or to brite and is a no it all,but got all the answers for the new comers cus they have the esperance.MODS WILL GET THE FINAL SAY FOLKS,NOT US .WE ARE WASTIN OUR TIME MAKIN OUR SELFS ILL OVER THIS,PEOPLE HAVE LEFT CUS THEY ARE ILL OF LISTERNING TO THE CRAP.ITS GOT TO STOP ALL OF IT FOR OUR SAKES ,PLEASEI DO NOT WONT TO LOOSE ANY MORE OF MY DEAR FRIENDS ON HERE :smile::smile::smile:
Well done, Ali j. Superbly crafted posting. No doubt the bitterness of the nasties will rise against you again,but your courage is saluted.
If I say anything to correct the misinterpretation of my words it will just continue the arguement, so I will say nothing and leave people to judge for themselves. I am the last person to want this sort of thing but, maybe foolishly, I have always been one to stand up for what I believe to be right.
as my daughter would say,'man up mum and get on with it'.
Brilliant Ali J.

I've copied and saved it in triplicate and backed up my PC twice, in case your posting gets deleted by the mods.

I used to be a mod you know, in the 70's, missed the 60's on account I was just an infant. Didn't do Parkas or Vespas 0-6months.

Why did no-one think of the children:frowning: WHY :disappointed:

(what's the difference between the frown face and the sad face above?)
ECD, you hit the nail on the head! PUK's management of this forum is totally reactive rather than being proactive.

Ray, i already raised a number of the issues currently being discussed about the forum, with PUK senior management before the Forum advisory panel idea was put forward. Furthermore having looked into the advisory panel, its just going to be another web chat? I was asked if i would take part but declined because i feel its PUK just wall papering over cracks and paying lip service to the issues as they appear to be on other matters, such as tackling the OCD problem caused by meds. I attended the first OCD steering group meeting in London well over a month ago? Yet despite me chasing them, they still havant published the minutes or action plan from that meeting! Furthermore i had a news cutting sent to me from last Fridays News & Star reporting about the latest court case involving a man charged with sex offences while taking DA's. When PUK were asked to comment they said and i quote, "PUK is aware of a possible link between this class of drugs and behavioural problem." Possible link my a** that statement is at least 5 years out of date and it does not fill me with confidence that PUK are on top of their game! Given my experience of the snail pace in which they operate the steering group along with this lastest outdated statement on DA side effects, the chances of making any meaningful progress on forum problems via some advisory panel, is in my opinion zero.

all the best
bluey
Message to the moderators

Please let this thread run, if you close it, they'll just start another! Let the protaganist grind themselves down and not contaminate the rest of the site.

Then the rest of us can just avoid this thread, but use the rest of this site for it's intended purpose.

Chris
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Hi Bluey.

There was an attempt last year to start up a series of meetings between Steve Ford and Forum users. At Steve's request this was going to be an online dial-in meeting, and participants had to register in advance. Due to the technical incompetence of Steve's IT/network team (and this is one area I really AM qualified to judge, having spent my whole working life in that business), the whole thing collapsed, with only about 3 people managing to get through.

No further meetings, online or otherwise, ever followed, and the idea just petered out: another good idea quietly discarded. Steve's report to the outside world on the success of this meeting bore as much of a resemblance to reality as I do to a yak. Forum posts relating to this can be found around the post by Steve Ford on 10/03/2010 at 19:51 under ABOUT THE FORUM - TONIGHT'S MEETING. Forum users' comments follow that one. Steve's notes can be seen on

http://talkparkinsons.blogspot.com/search?updated-max=2010-04-21T17%3A00%3A00%2B01%3A00&max-results=5

Just scroll down a couple of pages until you see Steve's happy smiling face on the left.

If the Advisory Panel meetings are going to follow that same route God help us all. By the way I was told that I wouldn't be permitted to jon the Advisory Panel.

As far as the OCD group meeting (which I was too unwell to attend) is concerned, it was my assumption that the minutes/notes produced were (effectively) the "Action Plan" which can be found by clicking SUPPORT US at the top of this page and then scrolling down to selecting CAMPAIGNS on the left hand side, then scrolling down again to RAISING AWARENESS....

The plan itself is pure Civil Service. It contains a lot of milestone dates, but there's beggar-all real meat in it, and no specific actions assigned to named individuals.

It is also my assumption that the Advisory Panel's progress will be much the same as that of the Ford/Members meetings and the OCD Group meetings, making 3 out of 3 failures down the plughole!

Ray.
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I noticed that someone called Eck I think had his post edited........I assume a HIM he in fact got my sex wrong lol. I must admit I wasnt that bothered by it just thought wow what are you taking so personal I never singled anyone out just thought after reading it what a shame and how nasty EVERYONE was to each other such a shame when we are supposed to be shoulder to shoulder not bickering over playground power.
Imagine your newly diagnosed and you see that you would think geez no support here then. I went through a denial stage and stopped taking all my meds (durrrrr) I couldnt ask for help on here because I was too scared of being ridiculed or at best ignored.
Jax (female) and thats my real name omg let the stalking commence lol.
I haven't visited the site for months, but it's not because the few that irritate irritate if you see what I mean. I just dip in and out when I feel like it, and the advice and support from other Parkinsonsians far outweighs those minor (gl)itches!
djemm
oops can't spell either!
djemm
My apologies to JAX_ for getting her gender wrong. I appear to have not upset you. I wouldn't want to offend.

Lets be friends, lets put this behind us (no pun intended) and concentrate on being informative, helpful and rational human beings.

BTW your assumption was correct.
Hi Everyone , I haven't been on site for a long time, have read with interestthe comments, we are all in this together let's respect one another and enjoy the moment . marie
Cheers eck nice to meet you and honestly I wouldnt want to offend anyone(six weeks holidays so not promising):stuck_out_tongue:
Jax
Desertion? AWOL? Where have they all gone then?

At the end of the day (don't ya just lurve cliches) we all have different opinions that we like to express.

But we all have PD or have loved ones that have it!

That common denominator binds us together regardless of personal preferences.

btw.....we mellow as we get older, don't we?

Poker :rolling_eyes::laughing:
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